Dealing With the Heartbreaking Effects of Miscarriage

February 4, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
Filed under: Trauma 

sadThere is no more heartbreaking situation for a woman than losing a baby through miscarriage after years of trying to get pregnant. Statistics show that 10 to 20 percent of pregnant women end up having a miscarriage but that number can go up if all cases of miscarriage are reported. Some women have miscarriage very early in pregnancy that they didn’t even know they were pregnant. When a foetus isn’t developing normally it almost always ends up in miscarriage. Emotional healing is harder to achieve when a person goes through a miscarriage. That’s why going through the depths of causes and effects of miscarriage can help ease the pain that’s brought about by this experience.

Spotting in pregnancy is common so a person who is pregnant may not be aware that it can be a sign of miscarriage. When it is followed by abdominal cramps and pains at your lower back, you should think seriously about the possibility of a miscarriage. A sudden gash of fluid only happens when you’re near your due date and your bag of water breaks. If this happens prematurely, it can be a sign that you’re going through a miscarriage. Seek your doctor immediately when this happens to check for any abnormalities.

There is a general misconception that the parents’ genes are to blame in losing the baby. This is not the case at all. When the embryo is developing there is a chance that his genes and chromosomes are not developing correctly, therefore, there’s no chance for the foetus to develop fully. Blighted ovum is also the cause of most miscarriages. It is when a fertilized egg doesn’t grow into an embryo but is able to develop a placenta. In rare cases, problems in the mother’s health is also contributing factor to miscarriage.

Older women have higher risks of having a miscarriage. The age of a woman’s partner is also a determining factor. There’s likelihood that a woman will have a miscarriage when her partner is older than 35 years old. Previous miscarriage can also put your recent pregnancy at risk. Smoking, prohibited drugs and drinking should be avoided at all cost when pregnant or planning for pregnancy. Certain prenatal tests that determine whether your baby will develop abnormalities after birth can be invasive to your pregnant situation and can cause miscarriage.

When a person experiences miscarriage, she will need a lot of moral support. Aside from getting medical treatment, emotional healing should be given appropriate attention. A miscarriage should not be kept from loved ones because they can help immensely in recovery. When depression doesn’t lessen even with emotional support it is best to seek professional counselling.

There’s really nothing anyone can do to prevent miscarriage. When you’re pregnant you should acquaint yourself with the right knowledge and constant prenatal care. Avoid things that can harm you and your baby. If your health is fragile then closely working with your gynaecologist can get you through a safe delivery and a healthy baby.